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Dating and the society

Hi, dear reader!

This may sound cliché but it’s so true that whatever you are doing whether its good or bad people will talk. You start dating it is a problem, you do not date it is also a problem. Now you have to understand that whatever you do people will comment positively or negatively it all depends on how you take in those comments.

Dating is not a problem how you date becomes the problem.  In the beginning God created heaven and earth after that he created Adam and because Adam could not live alone he created Eve, already that’s a sign that a man was met to live with a woman and vise verse. When you are dating someone it’s more of being in a phase of getting to know each other, this means you are discovering one another, you are getting to know your partner in details. Nowadays we live in a society with so many influences, a society that will make you want to demand more from what your partner can offer you and when your partner can’t meet your demands you start calling him names, you think of dumping him and etc.

 Dot not let what you see on the outside influence your relationship, learn to appreciate the little you get and be thankful. Dating is about you and your partner without letting the society come between, listen to advice from outside but do not take your problems outside. Remember to put God first so that nothing planned against the enemy shall prosper. On that note, remember to love and respect your partner so that you can stand united in good and bad times.


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  1. If we have more women with these thoughts, we will have society with others moral values ​​in a few years.
    Congratulations!

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