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Let’s talk about friends for a moment!

 

They say show me your friends and I will tell you who you are, right? That statement may be so true, due to the way we show up and take up space. So, with that said, what type of friends are you keeping in your life? Do they stick around on your worse and broke days? Or are they just friends when all is well?

Those were some of the questions I had to ask myself to get to that one person that I highly consider as a true friend.


Friends play a very important role in our lives, but you will never know who is that friend playing the important role in your life, until you speak certain things from the depth of your being to their hearing, for you to know who is for you as a real friend.

Do not be afraid to lose friends, if they don’t move, add value to your life or drain your energy to level zero. Come on baby, it’s time for you to clear up your friendship closet. Your time here on earth is way too valuable to be waisted by friends with no purpose. Get yourself together and be in alignment with the right friends attached to your purpose. But how do I know who is my true friend Rebecca? Put them in prayers and see the Lord reveal them to you baby!


Guess what? I used to have a big circle of friends, but today I only have one who I consider friend.  I was not afraid to lose them at all, I actually thank God for losing them.  Remember that the power to be surrounded by good or bad friends is in your hands. Life is about choices and only you can make that choice to keep on being in a circle of bad infuence or to step out and grow up. Be wise enough to hang with people that build you directly or indirectly. I sincerely hope that you know who your friends are and be in good company. God bless you!


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