The more advanced
technology becomes, the harder it gets for single people. It is as if the world
is moving in a direction where people no longer need each other-all they need
are computers and mobile phones-there is no need for meeting personally knowing
them through Facebook is sufficient. As a result, human
beings are becoming more lonely and faithless.
“Why did God allow me to date him if
he is not the right person for me?”
“Am I not God’s servant?”
“I don’t have the strength to go to
the meetings; I wonder if I would be happier going back to the world.”
These thoughts are true signs of
spiritual weakness. If you feel that you are grown up and mature enough yet you
don’t have a boyfriend yet, have faith in God and start by loving yourself. How
can you say that you have Jesus and not self-love? You need to value yourself,
love yourself, and believe in your potential. Above all, you need to believe in
your God! If you believe that God is with you, how can you view yourself as loser?
That does not even make sense! It’s not enough to say that you love God; you
must love yourself as well. Starting today, you need to stop making negative
comments about yourself! You need to stop repeating phrases such as, “I can’t
do anything right ….I’m so dump…I will never make it!” or anything else along
those lines.
Remember the encouraging words of
Philippians 4:13 - “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me!”
Relish away the thought “I will be
single forever
This insecurity or fear makes you very
anxious and there is nothing worse than living with anxiety. Remember that you’re amplitude will determine your
attitude. You will have to analyse and decide what else you will need to do to
transform these misleading decisions into right ones! I am sure that with faith
in the living God, you will achieve the abundant life promised by Him.
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